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posted by [personal profile] damerell at 01:45am on 09/11/2006
Recently on IRC there was a discussion of where one first met people who subsequently became partners - USENET, CUSFS, Monochrome BBS, even the occasional one in real life. I'm thinking of posting a poll about this, but first I'd like to get the categories sorted out. Ones that spring to mind are;

Actually in real life and not doing anything mentioned below.
Gigs and clubs and suchlike (subdivided goths and normal people. Nice boots!)
Monochrome or other BBS or talkers or meets for same.
USENET / old-school mailing lists or meets for same (and the same goes for all online thingies).
Livejournal or other meat-market^W social websites.
Roleplaying or other gaming (but face-to-face).
Church (freaks).
Conventions.
MUDs or MMOs.
Common shell account (like tezcat or sable.ox or chiark).
IRC.
Werk (boo!)
Hobby groups like bridge clubs or university societies.
Suspiciously healthy outdoor activity like hill walking.
Bellringing (filthy perverts).
Actually at some sort of filthy pervert activity.
Dating Websites / small ads / speed dating / blind dates except...
... specifically Private Eye smalls.
Bicon / polyday / some other thinly disguised meat market.
Mail-order bride.
Arranged marriage.
Fell for 419 scammer, still awaiting ONE POINT TWO MILLION UNITED STATES DOLLARS.
Talked to at bus stop in Glasgow.
During law enforcement activity (arrester, arrestee, banged up in cells together, etc.)
HELLO I'M ON THE TRAIN (or boat/plane/whatever).
At school (special points if one of you was a teacher).
Lifelong playmate since age three, now playing "freelance ob/gyn specialist".
Actually ob/gyn specialist (or other medical procedure).

[Poll #863523]

Answers visible to me only, so you can avoid outing your weird partner-meeting method. Except to me, ahahahahaha!
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posted by [personal profile] kake at 01:23am on 09/11/2006
Might be worth dividing the Usenet category into public vs. private hierarchies.

You should also add brass bands/orchestras/etc.
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posted by [personal profile] kake at 01:25am on 09/11/2006
Holy crap it is 1:23am. I only noticed because it said so after I submitted my comment.
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Shirley "exactly one".
 
posted by [identity profile] atreic.livejournal.com at 09:11am on 09/11/2006
University open days, ballroom dancing (I think is deserving of a catagory of its own, but that might be because I know a lot of ballroom dancers), in lectures (which doesn't seem to fit into school or work), at a party!
 
posted by [identity profile] valkyriekaren.livejournal.com at 10:00am on 09/11/2006
As a BiCon organiser, I take exception to the event being described as a 'thinly disguised meat market', however tongue-in-cheek you intended that to sound. Believe me, we wouldn't go to the amount of trouble we do to organise an inclusive, supportive event with thought-provoking workshops and vibrant social spaces if it was just about going on the pull.
 
posted by [identity profile] damerell.livejournal.com at 01:29pm on 09/11/2006
I think the cheap shots are sufficiently evenly distributed through that list, myself - and "convention organised around a common sexuality or other relationship focus" was too wordy.
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posted by [personal profile] sparrowsion at 10:23am on 09/11/2006
Intersections of two or more, eg USENET/Mailing list for hobby group, bellringing, hill walking; dating websites/small ads for church-goers, filthy perverts etc.
 
posted by [identity profile] chi-ryu.livejournal.com at 08:54pm on 09/11/2006
Bloody hell... sable.ox.ac.uk - that takes me back a few years (back when I were linc0569@sable, eeeh them were the days).

Sadly, I'm rather conventional... previous partners have been friends-of-friends (or work mates of friends), work mates, or (in one ill-advised case) a best friend's girlfriend. Ahem.

But what about "house party of friends-of-friends"...? This seems to be a common way to meet new people for me, though admittedly none of my partners have ever been met in this way...

Since you've got Roleplaying, I'd suggest LARP should be seperate ;p

"Met randomly when drunk and wandering <insert town here> on New Year's Eve" is another potential, I reckon!

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